Everyone who lives in [big cities] knows [high crime]. They program their entire lives around it.
I lived in Chicago for 13 years and I still visit quite regularly – not in the suburbs, but in Chicago proper. (For those that know the city, when I first moved there I lived in an SRO in Lake View for over a year and then moved to Rogers Park.) I can’t really say I programmed my life around any such thing. I walked around my neighborhood late after dark and even late at night, I’ve had pancakes at the Golden Nugget at 03:00 (great time for people watching!), I’ve gone to midnight shows. I never lived my life in fear there nor did I “program my life” around this menacing It from which these craven beings proudly quiver.
For contrast, I grew up in a very rural area in North Carolina. I lived about seven miles from the nearest town, a sprawling bump in the road of just under 5,000 people. It was in the small town, while visiting my grandmother, that I experienced my one and only attempted mugging.
On a different occasion I had a man show up at my house while my parents were out and start to come up on the porch once he heard they weren’t available. That’s the only time I’ve ever threatened anyone with a gun and luckily I didn’t have to shoot nor really even show it to him – that “click” was very loud. I’m really glad it didn’t go farther and I shudder to think what could have happened because there’s no good result past that point if he hadn’t left then.
My mother was at home one day when her landlord stopped by, seeming a little dazed and babbling a bit. He didn’t seem to want anything in particular and she said he left after about ten minutes without ever really making any sense. She thought he might have just been high on something stronger than usual (back meth, perhaps?) and didn’t think anything of it until she heard the sirens from the police and EMT services about a hour later. He’d gone back to his home less than half a mile away and killed his wife with a shotgun blast to the head, then took his own life.
But yeah, Stephen, please do tell us all about the crime, chaos, and dysfunction of the big scary blue cities.