As sent to me by email - Also this place has no way to contact the mods, or even create a quick sock account to discuss a very unreal message you get making accusations when maybe not everyone involved has shown good faith?
We are also aware that you are going through and liking posts of users who have muted you.
I mean, really? Nice story, but hang on. Before you set a narrative on this, here;s my POV. Thanks.
When I’ve muted someone, I’ve also put them on the blocklist, which turns off any such notificiations.
That’s called being responsible. I’d ask if there was a tool to prevent someone from liking someone elses posts, but there is a tool to prevent any such notifications from reaching them. I assume anyone would use that. I do. I have a few people on that list.
I have no desire to preven them from liking something. That’s too far.
Do we really want to get into policing what users are allowed to like?
As for being asked by that user to not interact, that didn’t happen. Not by pm not in forum. Looked back and found no such message sent to me.
It was presented to me as new information as though it were something I should already have been aware of the other nigth by a 3rd party (triangulation? hmmm?)
I’m sure that user appreciates your taking responsibility for her communication of any of that, to me. I had a short conversation with tino the other evening in which it was made known to me for the first time that I was muted by someone and should also stop responding to them (a request I have always honored, when asked to not interact, by someone, with them). I’ve not responded to that user. Not once.
Were that user a totally responsible communicator, rather than VERY passive aggressively getting mods to do that for them - he or she can, at least once, say something like ‘stop talking to me’ or some such - which didn’t happen that i know of. “going through and liking posts”
I’ve asked people for to not inteact with me,
I sure as heck respect it when asked of me.
That step - the one of saying it - was skipped.
Am i a MINDREADER? No? Are you? NO!!
It’s wonderful to have advocates, it’s not good when you rely on them to do your talking FOR YOU.
As was done here, by I have no idea who, first I heard of a problem was recently, and now I’m also not allowed to go back and look to see where something went wrong (liking a couple comments along the way) without being accused of
You let me know for him/her. No idea why it would be that way, he/she never said. Not really relevant.
It wasn’t a systematic anything, but there you have it. I look like a bully, and stumbled right into it.
Thanks again for the pleasant conversation. I suppose you should delete my contribution to the AMA if you’re going to play flying monkey today.
Cheers, a fellow human being.
Thanks for the not having double standards.