Genderbender: Sexual Identity and Gender Identity

Lucy_Gothro1 · March 22, 2021, 3:23pm

kxkvi · March 22, 2021, 3:34pm

jerwin · March 22, 2021, 5:26pm

The alchemists (who popularized, nay, esotericized, such symbols) were gender essentialists. Yes, they imagined possibilities beyond male and female but does anyone really want to be an allegory?

Lucy_Gothro1 · March 22, 2021, 5:33pm

…but with more blood showing.

MarjaE · April 9, 2021, 8:27pm

Really on edge with the Republicans pishing anti-trans hate everywhere and passing abusive anti-trans laws where they can. How many kids will they kill?

MarjaE · April 10, 2021, 5:52pm

MarjaE · April 13, 2021, 1:19am

Now can we call it genocide?

(migraine warning for the link)

MarjaE · May 7, 2021, 7:42pm

I think there’s some merit in some gc arguments, but, uh…

Reblogging to remind everyone about the anti-semitic conspiracy theories that big name TERFs like Bilek have managed to spread among not only their own direct social groups but also the far right in...

Ms. April Daniels â self-loving-vampire: self-loving-vampire:...

MarjaE · July 20, 2021, 10:20pm

Lucy_Gothro1 · July 21, 2021, 1:21am

This is how I feel about the above and MTG (it does loop and it’s Daffy Duck, lol)
https://tv.getyarn.io/yarn-clip/150873cd-d934-4ae8-8c24-c302239f6003

jerwin · July 21, 2021, 3:39am

MarjaE · August 10, 2021, 4:38am

MarjaE · September 6, 2021, 3:17pm

I haven’t watched the videos, but:

MarjaE · September 13, 2021, 12:14am

Migraine warning for the intro music…

MarjaE · October 9, 2021, 10:52pm

As we pass 5000 notes I’ll remind you all again that these conspiracy theories are not merely unhinged but very literally the love child of TERFs and the far right.

Yes I'm a Sister of Battle

MarjaE · October 13, 2021, 6:20am

MarjaE · December 10, 2021, 11:13pm

So one of my younger relatives has started using they/them pronouns (presumably they/them/their/them for nominative/accusative/genitive/dative) and what has traditionally been a boyname.

I haven’t met them in years, so don’t know if they’re questioning, or solidly enby-identifying, or something else.

I want to help. I don’t know where they’re at or what will help, and frankly, I have a lot of trauma around andronormativity and still want to challenge that, but I don’t want to be a jerk to them and deny their identity.

mindysan33 · December 11, 2021, 1:36am

Do you have their contact info? Can you reach out and offer an ear to listen? My BFF’s kid came out as non-binary a few years ago (around the same time that their father was being an asshole, eventually leaving the family for a younger woman, no less, so you can imagine how difficult it was). My BFF didn’t necessarily understand all her kiddo was going through, but she knew that the most important part was just to listen and accept them as they are. Bean is now in college and a happy person who seems incredibly secure in their identity. What kids (all kids, too) really need is just acceptance from an adult in their lives.

Reminds me of a recent Something Positive comic, about the non-binary character Gris who is living with the main character for a time. Their parents are less accepting of their identity, but the parents of the friend are far more accepting… the link might have some pop ups, and the like, so I’ll post the comic here, too in case you don’t want to click through:

LDoBe · December 11, 2021, 1:44am

What a little fuckn snitch.

MarjaE · December 11, 2021, 2:05am

No, I don’t.