The Trans Experience

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Bluesky is awful today. Many #resist and #voteblue accounts going off misgendering and deadnaming Caitlyn Jenner to score cheap political points. They think it’s fun to be bigots to bad people, but they don’t seem to care how that affects trans people in their lives/online that only see their acceptance being conditional on being a good little tranny and not rocking the boat.

Trans people are not political bargaining chips. Our identity is not conditional. Please, please, please, don’t be transphobic as a ‘gotcha’.

I’ve blocked so many people today with ‘ally’ in their bio who are gleefully misgendering and deadnaming and spouting the most transphobic tropes towards Jenner. It fucking sucks.

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There is so much to criticize Jenner about that has nothing to do with which marginalized group she may belong to.

That they see this as the most important factor shows they don’t really give a fuck about the real issues.

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It’s so weird (enraging, upsetting, demoralizing, etc) to me how many people just see politics as some kind of game of “HAHAHA, GOTCHA” rather than as a means of organizing our society to serve all of us. So many people have just… entirely lost the plot…

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It’s because they hate trans people as much as republicans. They just “accepted” us because they don’t want to be seen as a bad person.

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Yep! They accept us only because the other team vocally hates us, but it’s not real acceptance.

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I just injected; it felt more significant than it has in a long time now, like it was an added, “fuck you” to fascists

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I’ll be doing mine tonight. Fuck fascists, I’m feminizing whether they want me to or not.

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Our youngest voiced concerns about this with her docs, who reassured her that they are not going anywhere. Then wrote 6 months of meds. Yeah, a little concerned.

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I was just posting this on discord and coming to post it here! :sweat_smile:

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I partially fill the stereotype; I have used Arch. I have no grasp of Rust though.

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Same. I’ve never used Arch or Rust, but I am in IT (information security specifically) and tick a lot of the stereotype boxes. I have however, installed Gentoo Linux from source (albeit 20 years ago now).

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It strikes me that this happens a lot with all women. Like when a Congressional panel is convened to discuss women’s health, and there’s not a single woman on the panel. Which just further cements for me the truth that transphobia is rooted in misogyny.

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Indeed. I have been paying more attention to the demonization of trans women, while trans men are utterly ignored. Misogyny is at the heart of a lot of the current right-wing hysteria. Not all of it, but a lot.

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Of course trans men are mostly ignored. People consider them to really be women. Misogyny is still at work there, just in a different way.

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I think it’s also the way transmasculinity makes sense to patriarchs. Why wouldn’t women want to move up into the dominant social gender? It’s cute to them. ‘Aww, the little wimmins think they’re men.’

Transfemininity absolutely breaks their brains, because we are choosing to move down in the hierarchy.

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